{"id":37,"date":"2014-06-06T15:36:18","date_gmt":"2014-06-06T20:36:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/theslingroom.dlinkddns.com\/?page_id=37"},"modified":"2014-06-06T15:39:11","modified_gmt":"2014-06-06T20:39:11","slug":"code-of-conduct","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/theslingroom.duckdns.org\/?page_id=37","title":{"rendered":"Code of Conduct"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>The Eleven Commandments of a True Bottom<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<strong>1<\/strong>. <em>If you\u2019re going to bottom, come prepared to bottom.<\/em><br \/>\nBe clean, be committed, be submissive. Do not, however, be lubed.<br \/>\nin other words\u2026<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thou Shalt Always Be Prepared to Bottom<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>2<\/strong>. <em>Why? Because the top chooses the lube.<\/em><br \/>\nIt\u2019s your job to bring some. But many discerning tops only want to use spit, so you may have to take him without lube and with more friction. Deal with it.<br \/>\nin other words\u2026<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thou Shalt Provide All Supplies a Top Might Require<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>3<\/strong>. <em>Assume that if you have a gag reflex and can\u2019t take his cock all the way down your throat, that your ass will just have to make up for what your mouth can\u2019t do.<\/em><br \/>\nGetting your dick sucked, ass rimmed and\/or fingered is at the top\u2019s discretion. Understand if he sucks your dick, it\u2019s because he likes to suck dick\u2026it just happens to be your dick. And understand that if he takes the time to rim you, you\u2019re about to get fucked the way he wants to fuck you.<br \/>\nin other words\u2026<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thou Shalt Not Demand Any Assistance to Prepare for Being Fucked But Thou Shalt Help a Top Prepare to Fuck<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>4<\/strong>. <em>If your top wants you to blow a load before he fucks you, get to work jerking it.<\/em><br \/>\nThe bottom may be asked to blow a load first.Yes, we know it\u2019s going to hurt more when he fucks you after you\u2019ve already nutted. If he\u2019s asking, it\u2019s obviously the point that he knows that and wants your hole super sensitive so that you really earn his cum. Time for you to bite that pillow.<br \/>\nin other words\u2026<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thou Shalt Cum When, Where and By What Means the Top Demands<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>5<\/strong>. <em>Your top has control of a lot, but whether you moan while being fucked isn\u2019t always one of them.<\/em><br \/>\nSome bottoms can just take more than others and vocalize that proportionally. That said, if he wants you to talk to him, he\u2019ll fuck it out of you. And if all you can say during the first few thrusts is \u201couch,\u201d or \u201cslow down,\u201d or \u201ceasy,\u201d expect him to put you face-down on the mattress or stick his underwear in your mouth. He has to fuck his way through the pain so you can start to feel the pleasure, so stop running away.<br \/>\nin other words &#8230;.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thou Shalt Vocalize Pleasure and Not Pain, Unless Your Top Demands Silence<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>6<\/strong>. <em>Stop it already with putting your hands against his hips or stomach to try to control his depth\/speed\/roughness.<\/em><br \/>\nBottoming is what you came here for, get to it.<br \/>\nin other words\u2026<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thou Shalt Allow the Top to Penetrate as Deep, as Rough and at the Pace He Wishes<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>7<\/strong>. <em>Don\u2019t worry about jacking yourself off.<\/em><br \/>\nThe bottom should never pleasure himself unless instructed to do so.Focus on the pain and the pleasure your top is giving you with his cock. If your top wants you to get off, he\u2019ll either tell you to stroke it, or he\u2019ll do it for you. It\u2019s not his job to make you cum, it\u2019s his job to fuck you how he wants to. The better job you do, the more likely he might let you cum while he\u2019s still inside you. Earn it.<br \/>\nin other words &#8230;.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thou Shalt Not Touch Yourself Unless Ordered to Do So by the Top<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>8<\/strong>. <em>Don\u2019t try to take charge.<\/em><br \/>\nYour top sets the pace. Don\u2019t back up onto the cock unless he tells you to. Your top is not an amusement park ride, you are. He\u2019ll let you know if he wants you to drive.<br \/>\nin other words&#8230;.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thou Shalt Do as the Top Commands at All Times, Pay Attention and Ask If It\u2019s Unclear<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>9<\/strong>. <em>Don\u2019t be stupid.<\/em><br \/>\nUnless you have some prearranged, agreed upon commitment about something, it\u2019s the top\u2019s show. He picks the positions. He picks the bed, floor, shower, etc. And he picks where his load ends up. You can ask, but don\u2019t natter away and make him regret picking you over the other guy that was just as hot.<br \/>\nin other words&#8230;.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thou Shalt Anticipate a Top\u2019s Needs<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>10<\/strong>. <em>Don\u2019t let your mouth write checks your ass can\u2019t cash, so be careful what you say.<\/em><br \/>\nDon\u2019t say \u201canything goes\u201d unless you mean it. Don\u2019t say \u201cfuck me harder\u201d unless you want to feel his girth for the next week. If you call your top \u201cDaddy\u201d, or \u201cSir\u201d, or \u201cPapi\u201d, or whatever, be ready for any role play that follows. Don\u2019t bitch about it if you call him \u201cSir,\u201d only to have him put your ass hole through a Seal training boot camp. Your ass belongs to him until he\u2019s done with it.<br \/>\nin other words &#8230;.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>If Thou Asks It, Thy Top May or May Not Grant It<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>11<\/strong>. <em>It isn\u2019t about you, it\u2019s about the top. Period.<\/em><br \/>\nIt&#8217;s all about pleasing the top and getting his load.Really understanding this eliminates the need for the other ten.<br \/>\nin other words &#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thou Shalt Focus All Thyself on The Top<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Eleven Commandments of a True Bottom 1. If you\u2019re going to bottom, come prepared to bottom. Be clean, be committed, be submissive. Do not, however, be lubed. in other words\u2026 Thou Shalt Always Be Prepared to Bottom 2. Why? Because the top chooses the lube. It\u2019s your job to bring some. 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