Setting the mood

It’s time to get that body warmed up.

• Begin with non-penetrative anal stimulation to get that blood pumping in the pelvic area.
• Apply fisting lubricant in and around the asshole, Crisco is a good choice.
• Insert two fingers into the ass in a V shape, and massage internally to relax those muscles.
• Try warming up with anal stretching toys, including graduating and inflatable buttplugs.
• When the fistee is fully relaxed, you can begin to think about moving on to the next level.

Getting Serious

So, you’re feeling HOT and are ready for the next phase of your ffun?

Well, once you’ve completed the warm up and you are (both) feeling relaxed, you can move on. It is essential that you apply plenty of additional lubricant to the ass and the hand, to ensure maximum pleasure with minimum discomfort. Now follow these steps to get that fisting cherry popped…

• Lay down a sheet to catch any excess lubricant.
• Perfect positioning – the fistee should try lying flat on their back with the legs slightly apart. This position is recommended for the first time as it will encourage relaxation. (A sling provides a great means to achieve this!)
• Each finger should be inserted one by one to form a ‘silent duck’. The fingers are positioned tightly together and straight, the thumb is folded over in the palm.
• Move the fist in a little deeper.
• At this point if the bottom starts to feel any severe pain it is time to stop!
• After the knuckles (the widest part of the hand) enter into the ass cavity the rest of the hand will naturally pull in and the fist will curl. (Tip: Having the bottom push out as you push in and then have the bottom relax can help “pull” the hand in.)
• Wow! Take some time to (both) get used to the sensation.
• Experimentation time! Try rotating to see how various positions feel, whilst stimulating other parts of the body including the genitals. Flexing the fingers and the thumb is also a favourite. However, no movement may be required at all as the sensation alone is extremely orgasmic. For the first time fistee, they can control their own sensations by clenching the muscles lightly around the fist.
• For easy removal, return your hand to the ‘silent duck’ stance and it will glide out with ease

For experienced fistees: For a new sensation, it is possible to “dry fist“. In this case only spit is used initially until the ass begins to loosen up and it begins to produce its own mucus.  As above, the ass well let the fister know when the hand can be completely inserted.